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    接受自己才能更好地接受別人

    來源:網投 作者:丁曉飛

    題記:善待人生,是一種心境。襟懷坦白,心懷大海,才會寫出美麗的人生。

    接受,首先從接受自己開始,只有接受了自己,才能更好地接受別人,接受這個世界。接受自己不是虛榮、貪婪、傲慢抑或自命不凡,而是善待自己。如果你認識到自己是一個有自尊心的綜合體,如果你能夠保持自己的身心健康,那你就學會了接受自己。

    接受自己不是你想要什么都必須得到,也不是他人說你一句就不開心,覺得委屈,更不能要求別人處處以你為中心,凡事只能按你的要求去發展,一不順心就大發脾氣,你要知道并不是誰都把你當作手心里的寶。

    前不久,一朋友告訴我,她從小生活在一個不公平的家庭里。父母在外做生意,把她寄托在爺爺奶奶家里。老一輩嘛,多多少少受到些世俗觀念的影響,比如重男輕女。她是個女孩,在家里就遭到了不公平的待遇,有好吃的東西奶奶會留著給自己的孫子,只是偶爾少分她一些。她的生活起居由爺爺負責,奶奶只管燒飯,很少問她吃不吃得飽。在這樣的境遇下,9歲的她自己縫紐扣,自己洗衣服。鄰居們看不下去,勸她奶奶將孫子與孫女同樣對待,可是奶奶只當耳邊風。她經常在夜深人靜的時候躲在被窩里輕輕地哭泣,她思念爸爸媽媽。她在三年級時寫過一篇日記,題目是“家庭像地獄般的生活,可想而知,那時的她是多么的無助、多么的心酸、多么的絕望。我以為她會在不公平中自甘落后,在自卑中與伙伴不合群,在怨氣中學會報復。而事實不然,她沒有自暴自棄,她活出了真正的自己,愛自己,保護自己,欣賞自己的長處,接受自己的短處,努力完善自己。

    在這種心態下生活,朋友學會了自處之道,有容人的雅量,明白如何欣賞別人,掌握了保護自己的方法,也理解了“害人之心不可有,防人之心不可無”的道理。這也許就是人生的真諦吧!

    我們每個人都只是宇宙的過客,匆匆如星劃過。無須驚恐無須刻意。茫茫人海中都是滄海一粟獨一無二的,我們要接受自己的身體,善待自己,珍惜自己,感恩父母,團結身邊人,將正能量傳遞給他們。

    世界就像一面鏡子,人與人之間的問題大多是自身問題的折射。我們不需要去改變別人,只要適當轉變一下自己,人際關系就會有所改善。

     

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